Someone once told me, on their 10 years wedding anniversary, to remember what made me fall in love with him to encourage me in return to appreciate what we have together.
That’s easier said than done, I tell ya.
What if there were less common grounds in our differences? More arguments about nothing? Because we hold back on what we really want to say? Because we can’t seem to share our inner most deepest thoughts to one another? What’s a partner to do when you’re being deceived in the relationship with secrets untold?
How am I supposed to remember our love when I’ve slowly started to find out you told me little lies from the very beginning?
Trust. Honesty. Communication. A lack of these vital elements in a relationship have diminished our love.
Can it be fixed? I think so.
Will it be easy? I think not.
Are we both determined to make it right? That, I doubt.